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      New gender options

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      Regular users of the site might have noticed we have modernized our gender categories to use Trans Woman and Trans Man instead of MTF or FTM and also added Non Binary.  There may be some confusion at first with the new categories but all users...
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        Frequently Asked Questions

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        Why did my messages disappear? - Spammers sometimes target this site and if we find a spam account, we delete messages they sent. It is possible you will see messages from spammers disappear as a result. I live outside the US, why is my zip code...
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          Romance Scams

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          Unfortunately like any free dating site we have a number of romance scam artists who use our site to send users messages.  These con artists seem to be mostly based in West Africa and you can read more about them on, however...

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          • MrfatBat
            MrfatBat on Romance Scams (): Lots of good points, but these con women, scammers, and shills, are tricky, if...